Women who have tried dangerous and unhealthy methods to induce abortion

These stories are submitted by women who have already tried dangerous and unhealthy methods to induce abortion. Please let their stories serve as a warning to others that they NOT try these methods.

i) Female from Virginia, USA

My family hates the man I am with and if they were to find out I was pregnant, they would kill him. They would tell me I was an embarrassment to them. They would make me have an abortion.

I have a friend who had one, she told me all about it, the pain, the way the doctors were and I can not do it. The way the just suck it out of us as if it was not every there. When my friend was done with the abortion, the doctor looked at her and said, "okay, you are no longer pregnant", as if that is what she wanted. Her parents made her have the abortion because she was 17 and they were "too old to raise a baby." I don't want to be told I have to do it. However, I can not have a baby right now, because I am in college and I need to be concentrating on my school work. Plus I still live at home, they would kick me out.

  • Family Reaction: dis-owned by family, my family hates the man I am with
  • Age: 17 - 19
  • Ethnic Group: Caucasian (White)
  • Reason for Pregnancy: I had consensual sex with someone I cared for
  • Birth Control Used: I did not use birth control

ii) Female from Texas

I'm 16 AND I'M IN A POINT IN MY LIFE WHERE I HAVE EVERYTHING I EVER DREAMED OF I'M A DANCER I LOVE TO DANCE I'M IN A NURSE PROGRAM. I HAVE SO MUCH TO LOOK FORWAD IN MY LIFE. AND BEING PREGANT I CANT DO ANY OF WHAT TOOK ME SO LONG TO GET. I FELL IN LOVE WIT A BOY NAMED LARRY I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT I CANT HAVE A BABY AND I CANT TELL MY MAMA BECAUSE I KNOW SHE WOULD BE SO DISAPOINTED AND ASHMED OF THE SITUTION AND ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO I THOUGHT ABOUT RUNIN AWAY AND KILL THE BABY MY SELF BY KILLING ME OR SUMTHING CAUSE I JUST CANT HAVE A KID NOT NOW. THEN MY FRIEND STARTED TELLING MABOUT HOME ABORTION OR DRINK SUM KIND OF POTION BUT I JUST CAME HERE THANK YOU PLEASE HELP ME I KNOW YHALL GET LETTERS LIKE THIS ALL DAY BUT PLEASE HELP ME OR I'LL HAVE TO HELP MY SELF

  • Family Reaction: dis-owned by family
  • Age: 17 – 19
  • Ethnic Group: African American
  • Reason for Pregnancy: I had consensual sex with someone I cared for, I was intoxicated on alcohol or drugs due to my own actions. I had sex without being fully aware of the situation.
  • Birth Control Used: I did not use birth control

iii) Female from Brazil

There is a drug available on the market black called cytotec. It is illegal. It works for abortion purposes though. I do not want to buy it because I know many women who have died or become very sick. I need another option. PLEASE!!!!!!!

  • Family Reaction: dis-owned by family
  • Age: 20 - 24
  • Ethnic Group: Hispanic / Latino
  • Reason for Pregnancy: I used birth control but it did not work
  • Birth Control Used: Rhythm Method

iv) Female from North Dakota

I am a 39 yr old mother of five, was attacked from behind with sharp blade at my neck. Home pregnancy tests come back inconclusive, however clinical blood test comes back positive for pregnancy, the "plan B" method did not work for me. Am looking for less expensive ways to get rid of this horror other than the black market for 850.00

  • Age: 35 - 39
  • Ethnic Group: Caucasian (White)
  • Reason for Pregnancy: I was raped by a stranger
  • Birth Control Used: I did not use birth control
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